February 21 actress and wife to 2face Idibia, Annie Idibia shared a photo of an alleged 'home wrecker', and warned her to leave her man alone.
Annie
Idibia quickly deleted the post but in this era of social media posts
and snapshots, nothing ever gets deleted. In the caption of the photo
Annie Idibia wrote "'Pls tag her family members to put this woman in
oder....she needs to stop bugging my family....Am a peaceful
person...won't embarrass you by munching all your messages here... stay
away rich kid."
Indeed the woman in question
is a rich kid. The alleged home wrecker whose photo is probably trending
on Instagram right now as we speak is none other than Ayabime Okpo, the niece of Chief Raymond Dokpesi.
The gist from the
grapevine is that 2face was actually seeing Ayabime during her days as
an undergraduate at the University of Lagos way before he and Annie made
things official.
Unconfirmed reports have it that
she was also pregnant for 2Baba but decided not to keep the child. The
romance between the two continued when she went for her Masters Degree
at Swansea University after studying Law in the University of Lagos.
No
one knows when the love affair between 2face and Ayabime went south,
but it certainly seems she is back in the picture and Annie Idibia is
very uncomfortable about her re-emergence. You know what they say about
old relationships burning brighter. It was maybe a moment of desperation
from Annie Idibia who has known 2face since she was a teenager.
Annie's hastily
deleted Instagram post reveals what it is like to be in a relationship
or marry an actor, singer, entertainer or a man who is famous. It's a
constant job of trying to chase the women 'after your husband'. A male
celebrity will always have women around him, it's a fact of life, it's a
given. Marrying a male celebrity will not change that. Rather I think
it will even attract women more. A male celebrity is fair game to many
desperate women out there, ring or no ring.
When a woman decides
to settle down with a male celebrity she should have it at the back of
her mind that other women will exist. I am not necessarily saying that
the man will cheat but in the best case scenario many women will flock
around him for attention and sex. I believe Annie Idibia knew this when
she said her vows.
As beautiful it sounds to women
to be in love with a male celebrity, it’s a life filled with more downs
and ups. There will be women vying for your position. There will be
late nights. There will be lonely nights. This is just the best case
scenario for a male celebrity who isn’t a man whore.
On February 5, 2016
pop star Peter Okoye was accused of sleeping with an Instagram model by
the name of Aimee. Throughout the allegations Peter Okoye's wife Lola
Omotayo did not say a word about it on social media. She was quiet. This
is a woman who must have seen her fair share of women trying to claim
her man, but I bet she knows coming out on social media isn't the
answer.
On Saturday, March
23, 2013, 2face and Annie Idibia got married in Dubai. It was a big
wedding. Finally the two lovers had battled all odds, and are now going
to be together forever. Nigerian celebrities turned up for the wedding
of the year. Politicians showered the new couple with gifts. The wedding
looked like the perfect ending in a Walt Disney fairytale.
The
problem is the world is not a fairy tale and human beings are not
fantasies. You can marry your prince charming but riding into the sunset
and living happily forever is for kids. You know what reality is?
Reality is that there barely exists a monogamous married male. You can
argue about this but really that’s reality. Heck how many monogamous
average men do you know?
To the women who marry bad ass celebs they will deal with baby mama dramas, concubines and paternity scandals in their marriage.
For
the likes of Annie Idibia and other women married to celebrities they
can’t complain about what they are going through. 9 out 10 times the
best thing about celebrity marriages is the expensive wedding. After
that, it’s not a bed of roses.
How many women will
Annie Idibia chase or shame on social media? The funny thing is that
women chasing her husband will always happen. A year ago, Annie and
2face responded to allegations that the music star had fathered a child
outside wedlock.
A few days after 2face was caught kissing his baby mama in a club in Lagos. According to several reports Annie Idibia went berserk when she found out.
For
women married to celebrities as long as your man respects you and
treats you and the kids alright then it’s all good. But if you are
looking for monogamy, or a fairy tale it is time to wake up and smell
the coffee.
#FOC reached out to Annie Idibia's management and they refused to comment for this story.
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